Change ytdl opt name

yt_dlp/YoutubeDL.py

@@ -705,9 +705,8 @@ class YoutubeDL:
         if system_deprecation:
             self.deprecated_feature(system_deprecation.replace('\n', '\n                    '))
 
-        if self.params.get('update_self') is None:
+        if self.params.get('warn_when_outdated'):
-            version_age_warning = _get_version_age_warning()
+            if version_age_warning := _get_version_age_warning():
-            if version_age_warning:
                 self.report_warning(version_age_warning)
 
         if self.params.get('allow_unplayable_formats'):

yt_dlp/__init__.py

@@ -974,7 +974,7 @@ def parse_options(argv=None):
         '_warnings': warnings,
         '_deprecation_warnings': deprecation_warnings,
         'compat_opts': opts.compat_opts,
-        'update_self': opts.update_self,
+        'warn_when_outdated': opts.update_self is None,
     })